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The gruesome incident in
which a husband inflicted near fatal wounds to his wife and killed his little
baby, in small village near to Nablus,
underlines the plight of women in Palestine.
In another incident a few days ago, a woman in her twenties was found dead in
the Gaza Strip, suspected to have been killed due to reasons of a family
dispute.
Palestinian security
sources said that the police found the bullet-ridden body of the young woman in
the Beit Lahiya, in the northern part of the Gaza Strip. She had been shot at
least ten times, the sources said. Such incidents highlight the need for
further research and investigation into different dimensions of the problems of
women in Arab societies. The kinds of violence and atrocities that occur in
poor villages can only be appreciated, and even then marginally, by those who
are aware of the routine agony that such women go through in Arab society.
These are almost daily events, if you count domestic violence against women, as
in many cases in Gaza,
Nablus and elsewhere
in our homeland, and it paints a picture of how a large number of women live in
Palestine.
There is no dearth of
explanations for the miserable lives that some women lead in our society. Lack
of education, economic deprivation, political marginalization, are put forward
as basic factors contributing to this phenomenon. There is no doubt that all
these theories are valid in their own right, as each sheds at least some light
on the nature of trials and tribulations of women. However, most such explanations
are narrow in their scope and hence miss the overall framework within which
violence against women takes place. And this framework is the social
environment, traditions and values in which women are born, bred and brought up.
One feature of this local
social environment is that it is male-dominated. This in itself is not as
comparatively bad as may seem, because even the most developed countries of the
world, despite their phenomenal achievements in terms of liberating women and
providing them equal right, cannot boast of being completely gender-natural
societies. Neither can they claim to have made their societies a safe heaven of
females. The rising incidents of sexual harassment in the West are an example
that discrimination based on gender does take place. However, what is
specifically problematic about our male-dominated social structure is that it
does not provide women with the necessary relief at any level. Moreover, it
casts women in inherently negative terms, a species that is born with half the
rights of men and no will of its own. The sad part is that the promotion and
reinforcement of these values and view of women that men take, begins from the
foundational unit of society–family. With the exception of a very thin slice of
the social hierarchy, the richest of rich, in all social classes, women are
seen less as human beings and more as the weaker sex. Women are recognized and
defined in relation to men. A’s daughter, B’s mother, C’s sister, D’s wife.
From the very word go, women are condemned to live an identity-less life, where
they have to forego their rights in favor of fulfilling their obligations to
their male relations.
Another feature of this
social environment is its dichotomous value system. What is bad for women is
good for men. And most of the time, all the joys of life are defined as good
for men and bad for women. It is quite common to dismiss as a foible, men’s
tendency to womanize and a penchant for lecherousness. Many a time, the stories
of the emotional escapades of men are related, by themselves or their friends,
as heroic deeds—things to be proud of. However, a woman who is even remotely
suspected of the same indulgence is immediately dubbed as demimonde, a social
outcast and a sinner. At a more ordinary level, it is the woman who has to
vacate the room during a family gathering when an odd scene flashes on the
tv-screen of the West’s easy morals.
The men folk will sit tight
with eyes riveted to the television. These small examples tell big things.
These reflect the basis of the status of women, which is defined for them by
society itself. Women can only reject and disown this status at the pain of
challenging the existing family value system in the first place, which
institutionalizes discrimination and repression against them.
The logical conclusion to
draw form the foregoing is that as long as the unit of the family is not
reformed and is not made more favorable towards women, there is little chance
that the curse of violence against women will be eradicated and their misery
end. In addition, for this very reason, it would be more appropriate for women
activists and the torchbearers of feminist movements in Palestine, to work for the betterment of
women's lot in the home, along with demanding equal participation in all aspect
of life in Palestine.
It is essential to develop
appropriate services and train skilled therapeutic practitioners to deal with
this problem. An interdisciplinary and collaborative approach that integrates
professionals in the fields of law, mental health, welfare, and education in
governmental and nongovernmental organizations may provide a strong basis for
providing appropriate responses to victims of family violence. Undoubtedly,
there is much to be learned from the experience of other societies in this area.
However, this knowledge must be applied with sensitivity to the cultural,
political, and religious context of Arab Palestinian society.
Dr. Ahmad Hammad is an
assistant professor at al-Aqsa University in Gaza.
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